Sunday, October 15 - Parent/child session - 10:30 am
Sunday, November 5 - Retreat - Parent/child session - 10:30 am
Wednesday, November 15 - First Reconciliaton - 6:30 pm
First Eucharist
Sunday, January 28 - Parent/child session - 10:30 am
Sunday, February 25 - Parent/child session - 10:30 am
Sunday, March 24 - Retreat - Child - 10:30- 1:15
Sunday, April 7 - First Eucharist - 11:30 Mass
* Please let me know if there is a conflict with any of these dates. I tried to work around holidays but please let me know if I missed something. Retreat is especially important because we practice.
Orientation
Introduction - I am Melissa Harshbarger, the Director of Faith Formation. I have served as the Youth Minister for 9 years and as the Director of Religious Education for the last 4 years. My husband, Otto, and I have two girls. Riley is 15 and Isabella is 7. They attend St. Michael High School and Parkview Elementary. I love serving the families of St. Patrick and I am happy to help you prepare your child for First Reconciliation and First Eucharist!
Registration - If your child was not baptized at St. Patrick, please send me a copy of their baptismal certificate. If you don't have one, you can call the church of baptism and they can get a copy for you. There is a $20 fee for Sacramental Prep. You can pay by check or online here.
GroupMe - I will use GroupMe for reminders.
Schedule - Our meetings are scheduled for 10:30 am. We will begin right after 9:30 Mass. So if Mass is running a little late, we will wait until Mass ends. Our meeting will end before 11:30 Mass so that you could attend that Mass as well.
At least one parent and your child should attend all meetings (except the First Eucharist Retreat). You are welcome to bring the whole family! Siblings are always welcome! We will meet family style, meaning parents and children will meet together for one session.
The Catechism of the Catholic Church tells us that parents have the first responsibility for the education of their children, therefore, we will help you to educate and prepare your child for the sacrament. You have already started to prepare your child for reconciliation. By correcting them when they did something wrong and by teaching them to understand what is right and wrong, you have been preparing their conscience.
Mass attendance is very important. The way you talk about and prepare for Mass is what your child will learn.
Confession - Fr. Michael hears confessions on Saturdays at 2:30. I encourage you to go!
Packet
We will have 6 lessons for First Reconciliation and 6 for First Eucharist. It's best to these in a separate place that your child does homework. Maybe outside or in the courtyard after Mass. Each lesson has information for you to walk your child through the pages. If these seems overwhelming in any way, please let me know!
Learning Your Prayers the Write Way - extra resource - This is a great way for your child to learn the prayers. This papers are not required just a helpful resourse.
Act of Contrition booklet - Extra resource to help your child learn the Act of Contrition. NOTE: If your child is learning a different Act of Contrition, you do not need to learn this one. Please help them learn whichever one they are learning. There are many Act of Contrition prayers and it can be a prayer spoken from the heart. Lesson 3 has 3 different Act of Contrition prayers. We will use the one on page 13.
Resources that I like:
Mass journal - Every Sacred Sunday is the one I use
Bible - I love the Catholic Youth Bible or Catholic Children's Bible by St. Mary's Press
Pocket Guide to the Sacrament of Reconciliation by Fr. Josh Johnson and Fr. Mike Schmitz
Catholicicing.com has wonderful ideas to incorporate our faith into our everyday lives.